
Even The Rich Must Live by Faith
Discovering spiritual abundance and divine grace in a world of material success
by Arnold Sitiar
Can a man who has everything still feel like he has nothing? In 'Even The Rich Must Live by Faith,' Arnold Sitiar pulls back the velvet curtain of material success to reveal the spiritual hunger that often hides within. For the high-achiever, the drive for more is a double-edged sword—one that builds empires while potentially hollowing out the soul. This isn't just another book on prosperity; it is a profound deconstruction of the myth of financial self-sufficiency. Through raw personal memoirs and deep biblical reflections, Sitiar guides readers through the 'Altars' of life—from the hollow victories of early ambition to the humbling moments of crisis where wealth proves powerless. You will learn how to transition from the exhaustion of self-reliance to the peace of 'The Altar of Daily Bread,' integrating prayer and fasting into a high-pressure professional life. Whether you are at the pinnacle of your career or climbing the ladder, this book provides the manual for living a life of radical faith. It is time to ensure that your earthly riches do not become the very things that hinder your heavenly treasures. Discover how to live by faith, because in the kingdom of God, even the rich are beggars for grace.
- Biography
- Religion & Spirituality
- Christianity
- Spiritual Growth
- Religious Philosophy
- Prayer & Devotional
1. The Golden Handcuffs of Success
We build our towers with the finest materials money can buy. We mix the mortar of hard work, lay the bricks of career advancement, and cap the structure with the shiny gold of financial stability. From the outside, the fortress looks impenetrable. We tell ourselves that once we reach a certain number in our bank account, or once we secure that next promotion, we will finally breathe easy. We believe that wealth is the ultimate shield against the uncertainties of a chaotic world. But if we are honest, the view from the top of the tower is often marked by a quiet, persistent dread. The higher we climb, the further we have to fall, and the more we realize that our fortress is actually a very comfortable cage.
The writer of the Book of Hebrews defines faith with stark clarity: "Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen." It is a beautiful, robust definition. Yet, in the quiet corners of our hearts, we often engage in a subtle, dangerous trade. We quietly substitute the word substance with our bank balances. We trade the invisible, unwavering reality of God’s character for the visible, fluctuating numbers on a screen. We look at our portfolios, our home equity, and our business valuations, and we call that substance. We tell ourselves we are living by faith because we attend church, give generously, and speak the language of belief. In reality, our confidence rests entirely on what we can see, measure, and control.
This is the great spiritual paradox of material success. Wealth promises freedom, but it frequently delivers a deeper form of bondage. It whispers that we are safe, while simultaneously making us hyper-vigilant about protecting what we have acquired. True security cannot be bought, nor can it be built by human hands. When we base our security on our financial standing, we are not actually practicing faith; we are practicing preservation. We are trying to insulate ourselves from the very vulnerability that God uses to draw us closer to Him. Spiritual poverty is not about the absence of money, but about the presence of a deep, daily reliance on God. It is the realization that even if we own the world, we are completely destitute without divine grace.
A. The Illusion of the Ladder
My own journey into this realization began in the corporate offices of my early career. I remember the distinct feeling of landing my first major promotion. It came with a significant salary increase, a more impressive title, and a corner office with a view of the city skyline. I felt an immediate rush of validation. For weeks, I walked with a lighter step. I convinced myself that I had finally crossed a threshold into true independence. I was no longer just surviving; I was thriving. I believed that this new level of income would solve my anxieties and allow me to serve God with a generous and carefree heart.
That feeling lasted for about three months. Soon, the new salary became the baseline. The expenses rose to meet the income, and the pressure to maintain my new lifestyle intensified. The promotion did not cure my anxiety; it simply raised the stakes. I found myself working longer hours, checking emails late into the night, and constantly scanning the horizon for the next threat to my position. The more I earned, the more I feared losing what I had built. I had climbed a rung on the ladder, only to find that the wind blew much harder up there.
I became trapped in a cycle of performance-driven security. My identity was no longer rooted in who I was as a child of God, but in what I could produce for my employers. I was trapped by my own success, bound by the golden handcuffs of a lifestyle I could not afford to lose. I had to keep performing, keep winning, and keep earning to keep the fear at bay. The tragedy was that I did not even realize I was in a cage. I thought I was simply being responsible, diligent, and successful. I was blind to the fact that my growing reliance on my own performance was slowly starving my relationship with God. I had no need for daily bread when my pantry was already full of my own achievements.
B. The Day the Tower Trembled
The breaking point came during a high-stakes negotiation that was supposed to secure my career for the next decade. For nearly a year, I had poured every ounce of my energy into a massive corporate acquisition. It was a career-defining deal, the kind that promises both immense financial reward and industry-wide recognition. I had worked through weekends, missed family dinners, and neglected my physical and spiritual health to drag this deal across the finish line. My entire sense of worth was riding on its success.
Two days before the final contracts were scheduled to be signed, the lead investor pulled out without warning. A regulatory shift in an overseas market had spooked their board, and they walked away from the table. Just like that, the deal was dead. There was no backup plan, no room for renegotiation. The collapse was absolute and public.
I remember sitting in my office in the suffocating silence that followed the phone call. The city skyline outside my window looked cold and indifferent. I felt a physical sensation of emptiness, as if someone had pulled a plug at the base of my spine and let all my strength drain onto the carpet. In the days that followed, the anxiety was paralyzing. I could not sleep, I could not focus, and I was convinced that my career was over. My peers would look at me as a failure. My family’s financial future seemed suddenly fragile, even though we had plenty of savings to weather the storm. The panic was entirely disproportionate to the actual physical reality of my situation.
That was the moment the illusion shattered. The collapse of the deal did not just threaten my bank account; it threatened my identity. I was forced to look into the mirror and confront a painful truth: my sense of peace, my self-worth, and my security were tied completely to my net worth. I had built a religion around my career, and the god of that religion had just failed me. God did not cause the deal to fall through, but He absolutely used the wreckage to show me where I had placed my trust. He allowed my worldly foundation to shake so I could see that it was made of sand.
C. The Cage of Self-Reliance
When we look at our lives through the lens of faith, we must ask ourselves what we are actually trusting to deliver us from trouble. For many of us who have achieved some measure of financial success, our default savior is our resourcefulness. If a problem arises, we write a check, hire an expert, or work longer hours to solve it. We have developed a highly sophisticated system of self-reliance that bypasses the need for prayer or divine intervention entirely.
This self-reliance is a subtle trap. It looks like wisdom, responsibility, and good stewardship. We tell ourselves we are being prudent. But when we look closely at our hearts, we find that our wealth has actually insulated us from the raw, beautiful experience of trusting God. We no longer know what it means to pray, "Give us this day our daily bread," because we have already secured next year's bread in our investment accounts. We do not know how to wait on the Lord because we can speed up almost any process with capital.
Our wealth becomes a tool that keeps God at a safe distance. We invite Him into our lives for inspiration, for moral guidance, and for eternal insurance, but we do not invite Him into our daily survival. We keep the steering wheel firmly in our own hands, confident that our resources can steer us through any storm. But when a storm comes that money cannot quiet—a broken relationship, a terminal illness, a crisis of meaning—we find ourselves utterly unprepared. The tools that served us so well in the marketplace are completely useless in the realm of the soul.
To break free from this cage, we must begin by acknowledging our spiritual poverty. We must admit that our material abundance is often a smoke screen that hides our deep inner bankruptcy. True faith begins at the end of our own resources. It is the moment we stop looking at our assets as a shield and start looking at God as our only true refuge.
D. Taking Stock: The Faith Audit
To help you navigate this transition from self-reliance to true faith, I invite you to conduct a personal Faith Audit. This is not an accounting of your financial assets, but an honest assessment of where your heart is actually investing its trust. It requires quiet reflection, absolute honesty, and a willingness to look at the uncomfortable realities of your inner life.
Set aside thirty minutes of uninterrupted time. Grab a notebook and write down your answers to the following steps. Do not rush the process; let the questions search your heart.
- Identify Your Top Five Stressors: List the five things that currently cause you the most anxiety, worry, or sleepless nights. These could be related to your career, your family, your health, your investments, or your future. Be specific. Instead of writing "finances," write "the fear that our business will lose its main client."
- Analyze Your Default Solutions: For each stressor on your list, write down your immediate, instinctive plan to solve it. What is the first thing you want to do to fix the problem? Do you plan to work harder, move money around, call an influential contact, or research solutions online for hours? Look for the common thread of self-reliance in your answers.
- Locate the Source of Trust: Ask yourself honestly: "In this specific area, am I relying on my own resources, intellect, and financial position to deliver me, or am I actively relying on God?" If your bank account was suddenly emptied, would your anxiety regarding this stressor skyrocket? If the answer is yes, then your trust is likely in your money, not in your Maker.
- Surrender the Outcome: For each item, write a prayer of explicit surrender. Acknowledge that you cannot control the future, protect your wealth, or guarantee your own safety. Release the outcome to God and ask Him to replace your false sense of security with the true peace that comes only from His presence.
Once you have completed this audit, look over your list. The areas where you feel the most anxiety are almost always the areas where you have failed to trust God. They are the places where you are still trying to be your own savior. Recognizing these areas is the first step toward breaking the power of the golden handcuffs and entering into the freedom of authentic faith.
E. The Freedom of True Security
Living by faith does not mean we must abandon our careers, liquidate our assets, or live in voluntary destitution. Wealth itself is neutral; it is neither a sign of God's special favor nor a mark of spiritual failure. The danger lies not in what we have in our hands, but in what we have in our hearts. The challenge for the high-achiever is to learn how to hold worldly resources loosely, refusing to let them become the foundation of our identity or our peace.
When we detach our security from our bank balances, we experience a profound shift. We no longer view our careers as a desperate climb for survival, but as an opportunity to serve and create. We are no longer paralyzed by the fear of loss, because we know that our true treasure is secure in Christ. We can make bold decisions, take godly risks, and give with radical generosity because we are no longer trying to protect a fragile, self-made kingdom.
This is the life God invites us into—a life where our peace is not contingent on the market's performance, our job security, or our net worth. It is a life anchored in the unchanging character of a Father who promises to supply all our needs according to His riches in glory. The golden handcuffs may feel secure, but they are still handcuffs. It is time to unlock them, step out of the cage of self-reliance, and discover the exhilarating freedom of walking by faith alone.
Reflection Questions
- What is the one thing you are most afraid of losing right now? What does that fear reveal about where you have placed your ultimate trust?
- How does your current bank balance affect your prayer life? Do you pray with more urgency when resources are tight, or do you maintain a consistent posture of dependence even in times of plenty?
Action Steps
- Silent Prayer: Complete a fifteen-minute silent prayer session without asking God for any material needs or solutions to your problems. Focus entirely on praising Him for His character, His presence, and His love.
- Document Failure: Write down three specific times in your past when wealth, status, or career success completely failed to provide you with peace or solve an internal crisis. Use this document as a reminder when you are tempted to rely on your own resources.
- The Needs vs. Wants Log: Commit to a forty-eight-hour tracking period where you document every purchase you make. Next to each transaction, note the emotional trigger behind it. Were you buying out of actual necessity, or were you attempting to soothe stress, seek comfort, or project a certain image of success to the world?
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